Wine women and song, on 12 September 2011 - 02:08 PM, said:
It depends. f**king a 15 year old girl is creepy and disgusting, bragging about it even more so. But I don't see what's wrong with older men dating 18 or 19 year olds. They're sexually mature and probably at the peak of their looks.
Emotional maturity might be an issue, but TBH I've never noticed much of a difference between the teenagers and twenty-somethings I've dated. An 19yo girl and a 29yo man belong to the same pop-culture milieu as well, so they would probably have a decent amount in common.
TL:DR: college. students yes, high school students no.
A 19 year old and 29 year old really weren't formed by quite the same trends and experiences, they are ten years apart, like the 80s and the 90s. It's the same culture but they won't relate to it in quite the same way. The 29 year old has graduated from university and had a job for a number of years, the 19 year old is still in school. Why is a 29 year old hanging out with a girl who is still in school, and who for that matter still can't drink? There should be a big difference in perspective between 19 and 29 because of these differences in circumstance.
Some people here will think I am rigid on this point, but I think ten years is the cut-off. After that you just have to admit there's something wrong with you, you have either failed to mature, or you are desperate due to lack of sexual experience, or you are trying to relive your past. Are you looking for a wife or an intern?
Alright, it isn't revolting like a 29-year-old f**king
a 15-year-old, it's a sign of immaturity moreso than being an amoral deviant. If I knew someone with a wife ten years younger I might even just chalk it up to "C'est la vie"--especially if they are older and conceivably met in some context where they were peers, as opposed to him being a guy pushing 30 and still going to keggers like it's no big deal.
If you are older than 29 and are dating 19-year-olds then, sorry, you have mental health issues. Something has stunted the normal protectiveness an older man should feel around very young women. I would expect such men to have many other problems besides a taste for girls who are too young.
People who are broken also tend not to see what is so broken about them.